Tiger Moms, the model minority stereotype, and the impact on youth in schools
by Helen Gym on Feb 07 2011

Media hype around Amy Chua's racialized "Tiger Mom" plays into stereotypes that hurt youth in schools, particularly Asian immigrant youth.
Recently, Yale Law Professor Amy Chua wrote an op-ed for the Wall Street Journal that set off a media and cultural firestorm.
Titled “Why Chinese Mothers are Superior,” the piece’s outlandish assertions about Asian immigrant parenting hit the requisite rounds on the 24-hour news cycle.
Though the media chatter has been seemingly non-stop, what has not been adequately addressed is Chua's calculated exploitation of a pernicious stereotype that has had deep impact on youth – particularly youth of color – in our schools: the model minority stereotype of the superhuman Asian student.
The “model minority” stereotype promotes the idea that Asian youth will succeed academically under any circumstance because they have families at home that push them toward academic excellence, because Asians understand and support the U.S. system of education, because Asians have access to more resources than others, and because they are resilient and can withstand any manner of abuse. They have parents who are a relentless and constant presence in their children's lives, who demand academic excellence and support non-stop tutoring and music - even on vacations.
As Chua explains:
“Chinese parents demand perfect grades because they believe that their child can get them. If their child doesn't get them, the Chinese parent assumes it's because the child didn't work hard enough. That's why the solution to substandard performance is always to excoriate, punish and shame the child. The Chinese parent believes that their child will be strong enough to take the shaming and to improve from it.”
The model minority stereotype implies that Asian Americans are a docile group with a pull yourself up by the bootstraps culture – a group that doesn’t need services or much political or cultural attention and resources. It’s a message that creates and widens divisions between Asian Americans and other people of color. Whether intentional or not, the model minority narrative reinforces the idea of “personal responsibility” and “culture of poverty” interpretations about low achievement.
It’s a story where Asians are cast as a super-privileged class, who ought to evoke fear and competition from American educators. It’s curious how the media hype around Chua’s essay coincides with fears about a rising China, fears that gain even more traction when the U.S. struggles economically. We saw this type of Asian xenophobia with Japan in the 1980s. Today it’s China, where the political ads from the November election reflect a calculated attempt to sell voters on candidates who won’t allow the U.S. to fall behind.
These are stereotypes and images that haunt many of our youth in schools. Chua’s excerpt boasts about the impact of her extreme parenting style – crackdowns, punishments, prohibitions, and verbal abuse. Whether intentional or not, she plays to the “zero tolerance” and “race to the top” mentality which has governed much of the recent theory about remaking inner city schools.
For Asian immigrant and Asian American students, the impact is just as damaging. This stereotype is often at the heart of a denial of a host of educational services from language services to lack of testing for special education, counseling services, or multiracial ethnic studies in schools.
The U.S. Supreme Court case supporting bilingual education Lau vs. Nichols (1972) and Philadelphia’s own 1985 suit, Y.S. vs. School District of Philadelphia which established ESL services throughout the School District were hard-fought battles by Asian community advocates. Both challenged arguments against offering English language and bilingual services based on biased assumptions that Asian youth can learn English quickly. Consider:
- Mental health counseling services are notoriously lacking for Asian communities. After all, why provide such services when Asians are so successful in school?
- Tutoring assistance? Special ed placement? College advisory? Aren’t Asians “overrepresented” in colleges?
- Curricula? Why bother to teach Asian American history when Asians assimilate so well?
Stereotypes like this have triggered informal quotas in higher education and the neglect of racial harassment and violence in schools.
At South Philadelphia High School, school officials ignored repeated attacks against Asian immigrant students, forcing a Dept. of Justice lawsuit against the School District for “unlawful discrimination” and civil rights violations against Asian youth. In numerous instances, District officials implied that language programs for Asian youth were special privileges. The school’s principal called advocacy around stopping racial violence an “Asian agenda.” In public testimony, Superintendent Arlene Ackerman equated non-English speaking recent immigrant youth at the school to Asian youth at an elite magnet high school, implying that the immigrant youth didn’t need specialized services as much as they needed to “integrate” and blend in with their classmates.
As a parent, Amy Chua has every right to her memoirs and her child-rearing style. The problem is that the mainstream media – with Chua’s complicity – has seized upon and sensationalized a racialization of Chua’s life. It’s ridiculous to make the assumption that Chua, a second generation Yale law professor with wealth and privilege, represents the lives of all Asian immigrant parents; meanwhile, the complex lived realities of Asian immigrants in the U.S. are ignored.
There’s nothing in the dialogue around the Tiger Mom debate that talks about an immigrant parent’s 12+ hour workdays or children left home alone to look after themselves. There’s nothing about racial alienation and cultural dissonance, about extreme poverty or the mental health and social problems – domestic violence, addiction, and depression – within many recent immigrant families. There's no mention of the vast differences in academic achievement and educational experience of ethnic subgroups within Asian America. Asian American women ages 15-24 have the highest suicide rate of women in any race or ethnic group in that age group; suicide is the second leading cause of death for Asian American women in that age range.
These are sobering statistics for all educators to consider.
At the end of the day Chua’s essay says more about a hypercompetitive, wealthy elitist mom seeking to one-up everyone else than it does about raising children to live in a complicated world. And for educators who buy into that line, it’s our students who will likely live with the consequences.









Comments (10)
Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Mon, 02/07/2011 - 16:14.
"Whether intentional or not, she plays to the “zero tolerance” and “race to the top” mentality which has governed much of the recent theory about remaking inner city schools."
I am not sure how this is relevant to the theme of the post. Please explain.
Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 02/08/2011 - 00:10.
Why don't you explain your concerns?
Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 02/08/2011 - 17:19.
Simple....I was reading along and it didn't seem to follow. That's all.
Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 02/09/2011 - 07:46.
Because she is saying if a student doesn't perform well academically, the answer is to punish them. That's the RTTT model. Punish struggling schools, give them more "tough love," etc.
Submitted by Helen Gym on Wed, 02/09/2011 - 13:11.
Thanks to commenters above. I should have made that more clear in my post.
Submitted by George Birds (not verified) on Tue, 02/08/2011 - 13:36.
This woman needs medication, not publication. If her children were still in her care, she should be investigated by child welfare for abuse.
Submitted by 2Teach2010 (not verified) on Sat, 03/05/2011 - 19:11.
She doesn't need medication..That's why America is second class...we live off of medication, hoping that it will mask our problems. Why do you think American's get laughed at? It's sick to think that is the only comment that come out of you people's mouths! We cannot be taken seriously because WE let the government, society and media raise our kids. I commend her greatly. There is nothing wrong with her parental skills!
Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 02/08/2011 - 16:21.
Thank you for pointing out many important issues we 1st generation immigrant parents face. I can’t believe Mr. Chua, a Yale law school professor, is applying this parenting style in American and her husband called her a great mother. What kind of message are they trying to send?
The sad thing is she herself is not even a Chinese. She didn’t grow up in the Chinese society. Even her Parent raised her in a strict way, but it happened in American. The circumstances are totally different than any of us 1st generation immigrants experienced. Does she know a lot of us trying to escape from that kind of environment so we immigrated here? She didn’t know how hard it is for us to survive as 1st generation immigrants so that our children can grow up in a “western” way with freedom and individuality. Now her book throws all our purpose out the window. That alone makes me very angry with her.
Didn’t you see the people in North Korean cheer and even cry when they saw their dictator leader and son appeared on the stand? The dictators are admired to the extreme because they do such a good job brain washing their people. They were so isolated by their leader from the outside world, everything need to be censored. That’s why “American” people feel so sorry for their people and that’s why I fell so sorry for Chua’s daughters.
I am also worried about the effort our children needs to put in to compete with the offspring of this kind of parenting. I am a 1st generation immigrant from Taiwan. My son was born in the US and was of cause not raised "Tiger Mom" way. Think of it, the situation is already bad for him that all his peers and teachers expect all his performances are the results of this kind of parenting. But when he didn't get strait A's and happen to be very talented in violin, who can see that he has more potential than Amy Chua's two daughters because he is his independant self without force learning and practicing by their "tiger mom"? Shouldn't we have true democracy beginning in the family of the children's childhood and for the entire nation. Isn't this the American is about? I wish the college administration officers after learning the kind of extreme parenting styles by these ego driven parents can figure out a way to distinguish their applicants so the youngsters from less wealthy family that parents can't afford spending so much time and money on them can have a chance to prove that even they are not made into prodigy like Amy's daughters but they can be also achieve in the long run if given a chance.
Submitted by Helen Gym on Wed, 02/09/2011 - 10:06.
Thanks for posting. I think this blog post from Disgrasian does a poignant job talking about the struggles between second and first generation Asian immigrant families, and delineating many of the points you made above about why some Asian immigrant parents act the way they do: http://disgrasian.com/2011/01/battle-hymn-of-the-tiger-mother-you-hated-the-excerpt-now-read-the-book/
But I agree with you that the experiences of many Asian immigrant families are largely missing from the dialogue. People are debating whether they would or wouldn't be Tiger Moms, not whether this stereotype is even true.The ones where the parents work all the time and are not able to provide a lot of home support. Or where poverty and struggling schools also play a role. This narrative of Asian America has not come forth through much of the dialogue and your concerns that class issues and the fuller experience of immigrant families (rather than stereotypical perceptions of race) also must be considered are very true.
Submitted by Amanda S. (not verified) on Fri, 02/11/2011 - 14:59.
It's really though to tackle parenting styles. It's more sensitive than politics or religion. We've come to respect our differences, perhaps it's enough to learn a thing or two from Amy's book. Now, we have resolve that unexpected impact on 'youth in schools, particularly Asian immigrant youth'.
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